In the video we watched in class a man was trying to teach empathy. Although we are usually taught to “put ourselves in someone else’s shoes” at a very young age, this was on a much larger scale. He used intense examples like the poverty suffered by Americans when the Chinese were profiting off of the American coal. He then reversed the situation to feel empathy for the poverty suffered in the Middle East because Americans are taking the foreign oil.
It’s
pretty amazing how blinded most Americans are to what is actually going on in
the world. The media plays us up so much and releases stories of all the good
things we are doing in other parts of the world. From our sociological
perspective we are heroes. We think that all we do is help other people in
other countries and we’re almost doing them charity work. Most of them don’t
see it that way. When you put yourself in their shoes, you see we suddenly
become the villains. We take their freedom and safety, steal their recourses, crush
their beliefs and religious freedom, fill them with fear, and when they stand
up against us, we kill them. Much like the Chinese did to us, but instead of
learning from it, we inflict it upon others.
Sociological
mindfulness is so important to have a functioning society. You have to be aware
of how your actions are imprinting the world around you. Whether it’s something
small like deciding to hand a dollar to a homeless person on the side of the
road or something much larger like starting your own charity organization, having
the ability to understand the struggles of others and make a difference can
impact many lives.
When I
think about an example of when I have been sociologically mindful, one
specifically sticks out to me. It was three years ago, I was on vacation in
Indiana like I do every summer. I was staying in a pretty large town where my
aunt lives, that has a large population of homeless people. My aunts church
does a breakfast feed for the homeless every Sunday before church. My aunt
helps out every week and they were short staffed one Sunday, so my aunt asked
me to help out. I am not going to lie, I was scared. I had very little
interaction with homeless people because of the area we come from. I didn’t
know what to think about them, and did I really want to get up at 6am on my
vacation and go feed a bunch of dirty homeless people? I thought about it for a
while and I managed to put myself in their shoes, (hypothetically speaking
because a lot of them didn’t have shoes). I thought about if I was a homeless
person at that breakfast, looking forward to that one descent meal I might get
all week, how much I would appreciate every single person helping out with that
breakfast, so I went. I was scared at first because I didn’t exactly know what
to expect, but soon I was overwhelmed by the manners and the appreciation most
of them had. I met so many amazing people with compelling stories. Needless to
say, I go back every year.
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